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[Edit Sept 12, 2012: I use “alisexual” now for these reasons. Also, in the post below, I did a shitty thing by behaving hostilely toward kuremu because I assumed they were white and were being racist. In doing so, I jumped to conclusions and failed to adequately check my white privilege.]

kuremu:

honestly i think some lgb people are just buttmad about being called ‘sexuals’ because then they’re lumped in with straight people. it has fuckall to do with gay people being historically ‘sexualized’ or some shit since straight people would be equally sexualized by the term.

Actually referring to people as “sexuals” ends up reinforcing racist stereotypes of POC, especially WOC, as hypersexualized, so it’s best to not use “sexuals” to refer to people who are not asexual-spectrum. Allosexual & consexual are alternative terms that do not reinforce the racist stereotypes.

This entry was published on 30 July 2012 and has 48 note(s).
It was tagged: asexuality, asexual,

Notes

  1. linnpuzzle reblogged this from missvoltairine
  2. ash-wednesday reblogged this from cauda-pavonis and added:
    Reblogged mostly for good referencing. I WANT TO START A TUMBLR MOVEMENT except then I would have
  3. desliz reblogged this from missvoltairine
  4. tobreakandblossom reblogged this from missvoltairine and added:
    I have a feeling my reaction to people who talk about ‘sexuals’ would be a lot less researched and articulate and a lot...
  5. cauda-pavonis reblogged this from missvoltairine
  6. raumlet reblogged this from godlessace and added:
    Agreeing with all of your commentary, but also noting that I’ve seen some of the LGBT* people who get grouped under the...
  7. chaifootsteps reblogged this from kuremu and added:
    My main problem with “consexual” is that the tumblr tag for it is basically empty and google yields almost nothing on...
  8. voltafiish reblogged this from kuremu and added:
    I disagree. They would not both be equally sexualized by the term because both are unequal in the first place. By...
  9. metapianycist reblogged this from kuremu and added:
    Okay. I acknowledge that I have fucked up by assuming you were white when I couldn’t find any information on your blog...
  10. jcatgrl reblogged this from minato-rise-up
  11. minato-rise-up reblogged this from metapianycist
  12. glossophiliqueer reblogged this from metapianycist and added:
    I personally like zedsexual simply because it’s clever.
  13. kuremu posted this

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